Start with the obvious. You bank somewhere don't you? Talk to your loan officer, see who they work with, network thru them. Family? Surely you don't all bank with the same people...talk to them and ask if they can help, and often they will tell you to call ole so-n-so. Make friends with the loan secretary. She/he is often the traffic director. 4 of 5 times the leads go nowhere but this is not pointless as you cannot predict when a job pops up. And if you have no work you have time to visit them and visit them - do not call, do not fax, face them eye to eye first time...after that, say 30 days or so, have a little fax, to the lending dept. saying, I am caught up, if you need anything quick call me and I will be on it within 24 hours! Big bank? call on the Estate and Trust departments....give them cards. They often need an appraisal for an estate or trust...and often do not get calls. Pens with your phone #, calendars, coffee mugs (not cheap, but keeps your ph.# right in front of them), key chains...all these are good gifts to LO AND THAT ALL IMPORTANT LOAN SECRETARY...DON'T FORGET HER! Give her plenty of your pens, when somebody comes in asking about getting grannies place appraised, guess what? She might just give them a pen...as long as it is a cheap pen...giving out expensive pens defeats the purpose! They hang onto them.
If you must depend upon out of town mortgage companies you will never get the much easier better local bank work...and I mean real banks, not those mortgage broker hacks.
Then start on the attorneys who advertise they do estate work........and don't forget THEIR secretary...make friends, give 'em pens, send flowers, offer sexual favors [well, be a little choosy before you try that option-especially if you are both the same sex]