AlliedBusServices
Freshman Member
- Joined
- Apr 1, 2021
- Professional Status
- Certified Residential Appraiser
- State
- California
My personal advice to you is to keep up the fantastic appraisal work that you already apparently do and just think of it as "a compliment" (or an honor) when any market participant reaches out to you in need of your trusted opinions. Remember as appraiser's we are held to one of the highest and the most moral and ethical standards in the public eye to constantly maintain the public trust towards our profession. We have the most expensive professional state license renewal dues to maintain and the most continuing education requirements of any other respected professional profession when compared to a dentist, doctor, surgeon, lawyer, airline pilot, or certified public accountant.I am one of the first appraisers they call when they get a difficult house to value, they know I know how to approach it, however I believe they throw any appraiser under the bus that they don't get their way with. I have spent countless hours on the phone with many Realtors explaining the process and answering questions for them. I have been asked to be on just about every panel they have that involves asking questions of appraisers at the local Board of Realtors office. They get plenty free information from me, and yet they find it necessary to talk badly about us behind our backs, and in some cases in front of it. Maybe I should just send appraisals in and not ask any Realtor for their CMA and let it fall where it may. Most of them have "Sh**" for comparable sales anyway.
So sorry to hear that anyone would be so unappreciative of your time and "priceless knowledge" with such a narcissistic attitude. Recently, I had a similar situation happen to me behind my back. I am a very warm-hearted person who avoids confrontation with these types of people and to make matters worse, she was so sugar-sweet to my face that I stopped volunteering in town for fear that I would run into her "out of her sight ... out of her mind" or so I had prayed, instead I just went home and cried like a child every time I had to be near her at any social function. This offender had not realized every single false statement was considered defamatory. Statements of opinion are not considered defamatory since they are subjective, just as long as the opinion does not contain false statements. Her false statements about me were the beginning of ruining her own self-image in this wonderful little community. Our mutual friends had commented, "Wow I wonder what she says about me behind my back if she does this to you!!" This all started when she got promoted last year to a Prestigious Board Position. Apparently, she did not realize just how unethical and unlawful it actually was to publicly criticize, condemn or verbally assault another person inappropriately with false statements that eventually harmed my personal reputation. Many of these disgraceful statements were overhead by others which resulted in considerable financial harm to my new start-up business office by implying inappropriate statements with a public audience and among our friends.
Finally, one of my dearest friends was a "wonderful" business litigation attorney. He defended my honor by sending a Cease-and-Desist letter to the offending party to avoid any unintended consequences. A false statement that harmed my reputation is known as defamation, which had included both slander (spoken) and libel (written) statements. He was able to quickly resolve my distress so the offender knew I was serious and was putting her on notice that I can sue and will sue unless retractions were made and the problem was promptly corrected to restore my reputation that had been hurt by her defamatory false statements.
Have a Blessed Day!
