Doug Bennett
Freshman Member
- Joined
- Jun 20, 2007
- Professional Status
- Certified Residential Appraiser
- State
- Delaware
Hey my friend . . . yes, quite a dilemma. I think it's important to recognize you have two "problems" here - one professional, and one personal. I would suggest not conflating or confusing the two into one. Do what you need to do as a professional Certified Residential Appraiser for your Report/Valuation totally apart from ANY emotional embellishment. Then, call any Social Services Office in your state or county and start to chase down who you need to speak to to get this lady some help. When your gut tells you you've found the right organization, I would recommend giving them all the information they might need to take over, then step back. Realize that you MAY be crossing a line b/w personal and professional realms as the reason you know about this lady is because of your professional contacts that sent you there. However, if you chose to pursue the more "personal/emotional" aspects of the situation, at some point you may be setting yourself up for a very complicated lawsuit by other parties who may try to abuse your E&O insurance which may ultimately jeopardize your license and financial well-being as well as that of your family. Hope that's note too complicated an answer, but as Appraisers that's how we think, right . . . the old "paralysis by analysis"!! Wishing you all the best. Bless your heart for your sincere concern for this lady and her circumstance.Got an order for a refi. Elderly homeowner not answering repeated calls. Lender said to call the daughter as the mother wont answer the phone if she doesnt recognize the number. Ok, whatever. Set up the appointment.
Just left there. The house is in such bad repair, leaking roof, sagging ceilings, cat **** smell everywhere, missing flooring, doorways blocked with furniture, broken windows/ripped screens. The roof is covered with moss, peeling wallpaper, kitchen and baths original to the home 1930's build. Clearly, that home is unsafe! My question to you, what would you do? Just report to the lender and forget about that woman? I would really like to report this to the elder abuse hotline, but I dont think i can due to my confidentiality required by USPAP. HELP bring me some clarity.