Celink is the largest
independent reverse mortgage lending servicer. They needed HUD approval to get the right to service RM. They didn't originate the loan. They just have servicing rights, via a contract. Basically, the lender subbed out servicing provisions to Celink. That way if something goes wrong, their name will not be the top headline
They may not talk to you due to privacy concerns, given the regulation of such matters. Anything linked to the borrower's account would by default, only be discussed with the borrower or someone with POA. So, don't ask them for anything specific to a particular borrower.
Servicing RM products has become predictably radioactive. BOA, WF, even MetLife, bailed from the business as it became apparent that no good could come of it when individual senior citizens would eventually default on taxes, upkeep, etc. Each instance was an instant headline generator that tarnished branding for the company as a whole.
So, it is no surprise that this "independent" loan service provider is getting lots of business & is overly cautious in documenting any move they make.
There is no obvious way for the appraiser to win, by taking on a middleman role. I suggest the borrowers bug the loan servicer directly, telling them that the appraisers they contacted wanted an appraisal order with a clearly defined purpose so that they could determine a suitable scope of work. If the loan servicing agent wants to be an intended user, they best put their requirements in writing.
I'd much prefer to dump this off on the homeowner, the originating LO or the borrower's HO insurance agent. They should be the A team for handling this BS
