Well, you are the rare bird, then! Around here, it is very commonplace. The situation you are describing happens daily across the country, and in almost every instance, the realtor is involved. The other wrinkle comes from the lender owned AMCs. The "AMC' engages appraiser then immediately sends emails to loan officer and often realtor indicating which appraiser was selected. Within an hour or so, the assignment has been canceled and re-assigned if the local loan officer chooses not to allow the appraiser to continue. There is no enforcement to my knowledge, so the avenues to lie, cheat, and steal are simply expanding and multiplying.