- Joined
- Jan 15, 2002
- Professional Status
- Certified General Appraiser
- State
- California
There's no need to record your conversations. If you always play it straight a lot of those phone calls will be pretty brief and you'll never hear from those individuals again. Water seeks its own level.
Really, you don't want a long term relationship with a client who has flexible mores. A client who will allow or encourage you to lie on an appraisal is also telling lies everywhere else in their program, from credit reports to income verifications. This is the same type of client who will - when caught - throw you under the bus for doing the very thing they demanded of you. This type of client will never be loyal, they'll never stick up for you and they'll always be pushing for you to commit greater and greater misconduct.
You're known by the company you keep, and doing work for funky clients tags you as a funky appraiser, even if your work isn't funky. Client management is part of the appraiser-client relationship, and sometimes client management means firing a bad client and replacing them with a better client. It also means clearly defining where lie your boundaries and consistently defending those boundaries against incursions, both great and small. Good fences make good neighbors.
Really, you don't want a long term relationship with a client who has flexible mores. A client who will allow or encourage you to lie on an appraisal is also telling lies everywhere else in their program, from credit reports to income verifications. This is the same type of client who will - when caught - throw you under the bus for doing the very thing they demanded of you. This type of client will never be loyal, they'll never stick up for you and they'll always be pushing for you to commit greater and greater misconduct.
You're known by the company you keep, and doing work for funky clients tags you as a funky appraiser, even if your work isn't funky. Client management is part of the appraiser-client relationship, and sometimes client management means firing a bad client and replacing them with a better client. It also means clearly defining where lie your boundaries and consistently defending those boundaries against incursions, both great and small. Good fences make good neighbors.