Thanks for all the info, guys. A little more background on the space. The space has been finished as long as I've lived in the house. We just added new carpet, paint, removed the interior spiral staircase (from office) that was previously the sole access to the room, and extended the hallway upstairs to meet the space. The space is mostly above the garage, but expands above an interior hallway and office as well.
There are some sloped walls, but I've done the calculation in Sketchup and about 60% of the area is above 7' in height. There is also a nice skylight and a large dormer that have been done well and make the room very usable. IMHO, it's as comfortable as the rest of the house and fits in well.
We did dispute the appraisal, and I talked to the township assessor (though not the building department) who said that the space should certainly be considered as main home square footage. The assessor's office has a couple hundred more sq ft for our home than this appraisal. My mortgage broker forwarded the assessor's opinion and a previous appraisal from 1.5 years ago, which included the space as GLA and here's the relevant part of the appraiser's response:
"...The previous appraiser did not identify this bonus room to be on a separate heat source, making this only a finished bonus room and not part of the total gross living area, as identiied in FNMA guidelines..."
He didn't make any mention of any other criteria except the fact that it's on separate heat. He included it as a bonus room under amenities. Unfortunately, I'm near the cusp of being able to ditch PMI but if I have to use this number I'll be paying PMI for two more years than I think I ought to
