Carnivore
Elite Member
- Joined
- Jan 15, 2002
- Professional Status
- Certified Residential Appraiser
- State
- North Carolina
I would like to think of it in terms of being pragmatic and assertive. I think the operative sentiment in the above is the last bit. I don't expect the big giant meteor to hit me tomorrow, but even if it did I would have no cause to complain about life being unfair because I've had it pretty good so far. As for the rest, that's just planning my various contingencies in advance instead of letting them sneak up on me and forcing me or my people to be making these decisions in the heat of the moment. I have a plan for what to do in the event of the massive stroke or the vegetative state and I expect my people to respect my choices and not try to second guess me due to thinking I made those choices under duress.
In the meantime, I can still paddle out, I can still hike with my sons, and I've got a new grandson that I'll soon be able to teach how to read so I'm still in a pretty good spot. I have no complaints.
Your saying you want a Living will. That is available and legal, and I already have one on File.
"A living will, also called a directive to physicians or advance directive, is a document that lets people state their wishes for end-of-life medical care, in case they become unable to communicate their decisions. It has no power after death. "