Really interesting development: I had contacted my healthcare provider "help line" last week when I was angsting really bad about the scenario, mostly the ambiguity of not being able to tell which aspects of the SB's personality were sincere, and which were business related--until her email arrived adivising me that for $1000 she would unblock me--a factor that hurt for about 30 seconds but then quickly put everything into perspective. POINT IS: Because I contacted them in need, the Behavioral Health dept contacted me today that like-it-or-not they are in the process of filing felony charges against her, with Elder Abuse enhancements, REGARDLESS of whether I willingly gave her every penny in my pocket, regardless of whether she asked for it or not, based upon a Cali penal code item that makes it illegal to obtain money from another person "under false pretenses," exacerbated by, yep, my age! Now I wonder if someday she will be across a courtroom from me in her cute orange jumpsuit with the $900 hair extensions I paid for!!!! You gotta admit that the scenario fits perfectly into the "Revenge Stage" of recovering from a trauma. I would prefer Compensation rather than jailtime, although if it must be the latter, I am hoping for conjugal visits !!!!!!!!!!! [and you asked me two weeks if something was on my miind and troubling me!!!!!! ]