LOL, Hi All, I was going to come back to see if anyone had an issue like mine. Didn't realize this thread was still going and there were so many cynics.
So update: Closed 12/2021. Everything was good. House is good. Got it fenced in and dog is happy. The other 3 homes built at the same time as ours closed around the same timeframe as us and currently there are 8 more homes b/w the two building companies that will be closed on in/around August.
I consider myself lucky that I was able to get in before things got really out of control. As it stands now, I've been contributing $500 per month in extra principal to accelerate payments and build up equity quicker to shield from any eventual downturn, but I'm hoping to keep that up for as long as I can.
No regrets, FL is a great state even with the crazy housing market. My mortgage payment is way less than the $2500 is would take to find a home or apartment of similar size for rent and there are very few of those.