Seems some rumor that ANSI standard will soon be required by Fannie Mae, et al. There was apparently some discussion thereof at the AARO conference recently. Seems to me that unless assessors, Realtors, builders and Architects also measure by the same standard, what's it going to help? False accuracy if you measure by ANSI but the comps are measured by different people, assessors, agents, etc. And how do you apply the ANSI standard on desktops, hybrids and 2055s? Inquiring minds want to know.
I've used the ANSI standard since I suppose at least 2005. I don't think it goes far enough. In fact I made suggestions a couple of years ago for them to extend it from exterior measurements to interior. They won't do it. Which is OK, there probably isn't good consensus on how to handle hidden walls and so on. But, I thought it good to make the suggestion and have people start thinking about it. --- So, it is up to the person creating the floorplan to set their own standards for interior measurements.
However, the issue is becoming less and less of a problem.
As you may have heard there is CubiCasa for example:
https://www.cubi.casa/ And many other similar technologies are being developed.
I bought a Leica D810, didn't like it at all and returned it for an X4. With an X4, it will transfer measurements directly into Chief Architect. I'm planning on getting a DST 360 to pair it with, for exterior measurments of difficult to measure second and third stories.
OK. So, I walk around with a laptop (Chief Architect does not run on an IPad), Use the X4 to feed measurements into a plan that I draw while doing the measurements. It should work. But I'm in the process of setting it up (there are minor issues to take care of). - Should be done in two weeks.
WRT to your issues:
1. Yes, you want to compare apples to apples and oranges to oranges. I take ANSI measurements and put them in the report. But I avoid putting them in the Sales Grid, because any "errors" in the tax assessor or MLS data are usually replicated more or less across the board to all properties. You would throw comparisons off if you were to alter the tax assessor data. However, there are cases where you find that the tax assessor or MLS data is way off for the subject property. I mean by 200sf or more. And it is often easy to see the reasons (with a little intelligence):
a. There was remodeling and the contractor very clearly expanded the kitchen into the garage.
b. The original contractor was asked to remove ceiling for skylights and sacrificed 400sf of GLA, which wasn't transferred to the tax assessor. Or maybe asked to extend the second floor to increase the size of the master bedroom, adding 200sf.
c. Home additions, legal or not, do not get transferred to the tax assessor data base.
These are things that are not likely going on with other homes in the neighborhood.
However, my GLA measurements are usually 10-40sf larger the subject, because over the years, the wall thickens due to added exterior surfacing. And in some cases, it appears the tax assessor simply had a different way of measuring GLA than ANSI (not surprising). These kinds of discrepancies are expected, and as I said, I don't put them in the Sales Grid.
2. With standards, eventually everyone will be on board. However, the tax assessor is not going to go out and re-measure all existing homes. So, old measurements will continue to be a problem for a while. Eventually all homes will have good measurements, - in 20 years or so.