I've basically come to terms that this career is not a good fit for me. I just can't grind out reports. I get too focused on producing A+ quality reports every time and that doesn't pay the bills. Case in point, I'm currently about a week late on a bowling alley appraisal and have another report due in a couple of days that I've hardly touched. It's just not worth the stress anymore.
I've got a couple of leads on jobs in the banking industry that I'm pursuing. Had a meeting last week that went well and it sounds like I'd be a perfect fit for a commercial underwriter position that should be opening up soon. Pay will probably be at least what I'm making now, if not more, and no more working nights and weekends.
I've seriously considered just putting in two weeks notice even before I get another job lined up. We've got enough saved up to last 4-5 months and my health insurance is through the National Guard anyways. Very tempting to just walk away right now.