First of all, you aren't my wife or dad to be telling me what I can and can't do. Second of all, there have been PLENTY of times I have agreed to complete an appraisal assignemt and all kinds of things come up and I end up cancelling the assignment, I agreed to do it and then I din't for some reason or another.
I have agreed to "do it" and shown up and the property was a hoarder type of property with 50 lawnmowers in the back and the ENTIRE house except for one bedroom was filled with washing machines, dryers, dishwashers and lawnmowers because they ran a repair shop and sold appliances out of the property, I have shown up and a property had no kitchen, 3 tour busses in the back yard with grass 3 feet high and the carport was stacked with junk like it was a flea market, I have shown up to a residentiall property that had a large metal building in the backyard that was running a car transmission shop out of.
If not proceeding with an appraisal after these things makes someone like you think that I'm an appraiser that isn't respected, then so be it, you or NO ONE else can command me by saying, "then do it. Period", but thanks for the advice. I am an adult that is 100% capable making my own business choices.