Gina, ...... Your calls to Realtors with questions of specific nature about one property (their listing) or general nature about a neighborhood, local market percpetions or environmental concerns should be as common and routine for you to make as they are for these Realtors to receive all the time (probably). It appears you ran into one individual who will play that special card whereby they ask you the very pointed question about "the property you are appraising" ! I have certainly been on phone with this type of person(ality) numerous times......and you truly have NO direct need to reveal the exact address of the property you are reporting on. There are usually 2 agents for every (comp) sale, and you have other property sales on the same street, or in same neighborhood....even if THOSE properties would not be considerded as a comp in your report. Call those agents for general info about neighborhood or enviro' concerns. If you reveal certain info up-front you can prevent the question you might get later. I might be very clear on stating the SUBDIVISION name where my subject is located, and maybe the street name if there were MANY homes along that street.....but always fall short of giving an exact address number, period.
Often, I get the curiosity question from them saying.."are these people wanting to list their home ?", such that this agent can possibly secure one more NEW listing prospect. You just might be appraising the place to help them set a listing price---which just might get this agent a faster sale---and their question about address can be more innocent than intially appears. That is sometimes all they want to know the address for....all part of the referral-from-a-referral system that we know drives so many businesses. If this one person seems insistent on knowing the address you politely excuse yourself from the conversation, and call one of the varied other persons who could probably help. ..."Well, Thank You, Mary, I can see that you feel you truly need to know a specific address, and my client has requested I not summarily disclose that. I had only a few general questions, and thought you might be willing to share your knowledge and expertise about that market area, but perhaps it might be best for me to ask some other agents familiar with that subdivision. Again, thank you for your time, good-bye." ......"No, o.k. o.k., what would you like to know ?" In a heartbeat, they may reply with full willingness to help you, so don't move to hang up that phone too quickly ! It's not like you're asking this agent..."boxers, or briefs?"