Unfortunately we don't have any time table, which is why I was asking what was kind of the "general rule of thumb" that everyone goes by. I was thinking a month out, myself, but wasn't sure if that was too far out of skew.
So here is my thought process, and y'all can tell me if this would be an acceptable approach:
Discuss with the LO/processor if we need the appraisal done prior to completion for the sake of underwriting (to have it done subject to completion) and if so at what point UW wants that to be completed - which we will then require the builder and/or borrower to inform us of, when the construction reaches that point. At that time, I would be able to order the appraisal, whatever the required completion point is. This would ensure we aren't ordering too soon, and that we have all expectations in hand for the appraiser when the order is made - wasting no one's time.
My lender is starting a new pilot program where we ditch AMCs and order directly with the appraisers, so the working relationship with my appraisers is of utmost importance to me. I'm very dedicated to creating a strong partnership with everyone we work with, but I've just started so I don't have the rapport with them yet to reach out individually and ask them "Hey, how do you wanna do this?" So all the input I receive here on these forums is very much appreciated!!