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Mom passed with reverse mortgage. A few questions

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Mom passed 2 weeks ago and owns 136,000 on her house and it’s been appraised at 245,000. I would like to purchase the house, I am a first time home buyer and 50 years old in Ohio. I moved out of my apartment 2 years ago and moved in with my mother as her caregiver. A few questions.
  1. Do I really need a real estate agent? (Seems like a waste of money if I already found the house)
  2. With all the equity will I still need 20% down?
  3. Should I go to a bank or mortgage broker?
Thanks for helping
 
Mom passed 2 weeks ago and owns 136,000 on her house and it’s been appraised at 245,000. I would like to purchase the house, I am a first time home buyer and 50 years old in Ohio. I moved out of my apartment 2 years ago and moved in with my mother as her caregiver. A few questions.
  1. Do I really need a real estate agent? (Seems like a waste of money if I already found the house)
  2. With all the equity will I still need 20% down?
  3. Should I go to a bank or mortgage broker?
Thanks for helping
Bank for sure. No you don't need an agent. Your income will depend with the bank on $136,000 mortgage. If you are heir, you could sell it also. If you are going to live there vs renting it, it makes a difference also.

Are you heir? Do you have siblings? Does your mother have other children besides you?

You may need a real estate lawyer to look at your options. The real estate lawyer might could see any red flags and give you free consultation. That would be your best option before bank.
 
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If you belong to a credit union go there first and definitely don't need an agent. Tell them you want to buy this house with as little money out of pocket as possible. Google title company near me and tell them you want to buy your mom's old house but you don't know how to do it. They will hold your hand the entire way, for a fee of course.
 
If it's only you getting the house, then it's just going to be a refi to pay off any lien, estate tax, and settlement costs you may need. Your loan officer can probable guide you well enough. With an estate it can be quit simple
 
If it's only you getting the house, then it's just going to be a refi to pay off any lien, estate tax, and settlement costs you may need. Your loan officer can probable guide you well enough. With an estate it can be quit simple
Assuming they are only heir and she died intestate (without a will). The house would almost certainly go to them with a will. Yes, they would have to assume/pay off the mortgage.

I would shop for lenders on mortgage rates. If they have $136K cash, pay it off. It's your house if you are only heir.

I am assuming nobody else has a claim or lien on the subject property.

Mortgage $136K. If somebody else has a lien on the property, it could make a difference on the $136K mortgage. Like a secondary lien.

Title search would see any liens.

If the mother had a will and willed it all to this person, with no other liens, then they just need to satisfy the $136k and would likely have to go through probate court if she did not have a will.
 
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You are going to need a real estate lawyer. Put that 1st on list. You can shop and should shop. My final unprofessional advice.

Real estate is not that complicated. I am sorry for your loss. I have not lost my mom yet but I have lost all other except my mom. Nobody like a MOM.

If there ever was a momma's boy, it is me.

I am spoiled rotten by my momma.
 
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I have no grandparents left alive or Dad. My Mom is only one left for her and many grandchildren and great grandchildren. I'm her baby child.

Don't talk about my momma. That was a thing in the 70's. Yo mamma. No, yo mamma.
 
You should ask AI (really, it is very good on these questions) since we are appraisers and just a small sliver of the process.

AI said:

"You’re in a good position here—both because of the equity and because you already live in the home. I’ll walk through each question and a few “next steps” specific to an inherited/estate situation in Ohio.
1. Do you really need a real estate agent?
For what you’re trying to do (buy your mom’s house from her estate, not list it on the open market), you usually do not need a traditional buyer’s agent.
Consider:
• The “finding a house” job is already done, and there’s no marketing or showings.
• An agent’s biggest value in a normal sale is pricing, marketing, negotiating, and paperwork with strangers; here, price is typically based on appraisal and family/estate agreement.
• In Ohio, it’s common for people in estate situations to use a real estate attorney instead of a full-service agent to draft the purchase contract, handle title, and protect you with contingencies.
A very typical approach in your situation is:
• No buyer’s agent.
• Possibly no listing agent either, if the estate is selling directly to you.
• Hire a local real estate/estate attorney for a flat or hourly fee to:
• Draft the purchase contract between you and the estate.
• Coordinate with the title company.
• Make sure the estate and probate paperwork are correct so the deed can be transferred cleanly and you don’t have problems later.
Given your background and that this is a “captive” deal, paying 5–6% commission to agents may be unnecessary if you have a good attorney.
2. With all that equity, do you still need 20% down?
No, you do not automatically need 20% down—even without the estate equity.
The key concepts:
• Equity in the house vs. your cash down payment
• Lenders care about the loan-to-value (LTV) ratio: loan amount ÷ appraised value.
• Your mother’s house is worth ~245,000 with about 136,000 owed.
• If you borrowed, say, 200,000:

LTV = 200,000 ÷ 245,000 ≈ 82%.
• That means there’s 18% equity.
• How this usually works in an estate-to-heir purchase:
• The estate “sells” the home to you at an agreed price (often at or slightly below appraisal).
• Your new loan pays off the existing 136,000 mortgage at closing.
• Any “net” cash above 136,000 (less closing costs) belongs to the estate and is distributed according to the will/probate (even if that ultimately comes back to you as an heir).
Because there is so much equity, you have a few options:
• Structure the price and loan so that:
• The estate still gets what it is supposed to receive.
• Your loan amount results in LTV of 80–97%, depending on the loan program.
• If you qualify for:
• Conventional loan: You can put as little as 3–5% down, but with <20% down, you’ll have private mortgage insurance (PMI) until you reach about 78–80% LTV.
• FHA loan: As little as 3.5% down, but with upfront and monthly mortgage insurance that lasts longer.
• In some cases, because this is an “inheritance purchase” and there’s a lot of equity, lenders can structure the deal so that the estate’s equity effectively counts as your down payment, and you bring very little or no cash (beyond closing costs) to the table.
Given your numbers, you should not assume 20% cash down is required. Focus instead on:
• What your monthly payment would be at different loan amounts.
• Your ability to qualify on income, credit, and debt-to-income ratio.
• Whether you want to avoid PMI (which argues for LTV at or below 80%) or are okay with PMI to keep more cash in your pocket.
3. Bank vs. mortgage broker
Both can work; the best choice is usually “whichever gets you the best terms and will handle this specific situation competently.”
Mortgage broker (or independent mortgage company)......."
 
1st base. Call some real estate lawyers and talk to them. They have a confidentiality with you on first phone call. Don't over complicate it.

When you call them, all they hear is what you know. Real estate law is not that complicated.

Real property law is pretty clear cut.

The lawyer would have no problem counseling you.

The real estate lawyer only looks at real property rights and considers you on a totally confidence between you and them.
 
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