Thank you! It took me a while to swallow some pride, confront my own weaknesses, and face reality.
I'd be lying if I said 2020 & 2021 weren't fun. I got my license and suddenly had a comfortable middle class income seemingly overnight. Working for myself and making that kind of money was fulfilling in so many ways. What I didn't know is that this was a bit of beginner's luck and a historically busy market. It gave me an unrealistic expectation of this busisness. Expecting to get 400+ well paying orders per year from AMCs is not a business plan. As someone who struggles with networking, I wish it were that simple. But it's not.
I had to take a non-appraising job out of necessity. I didn't want to blow through my savings. In some ways, it's been miserable having to work in an office from 9 to 5 after working for myself. But the silver lining was finding a job that had intended users of appraisal services.
Even with this budding non-lender client base, I've accepted the reality that acheiving a consistantly high volume of appraisal work could take years, and I may need another career. Learning to code at a high level would allow me to work remote (which is one of the things I loved about appraising) and still do appraisals on the side (for good people).
If I didn't go through this, I'd still be groveling for AMC work and feel awful.
I agree with you and wish everyone would stop working with them. I don't think they are useless, but we've allowed them to dictate everything.