CathCoy,
Glad you appear to have calmed down a bit. My additional take on this after reading all the previous posts is:
The appraiser probably should not have said anything to the homeowner.
The appraiser should include this existing condition that does constitute a safety hazard in the appraisal report. The underwriter will handle it from there. To ask the appraiser to leave it out would be extremely unethical on your part and would put the appraiser in liability danger.
IF this room would be considered a bedroom by most people and meets the criteria necessary for it to be a bedroom - IT IS A BEDROOM - it doesn't matter AT ALL what the current use is. IF it would typically NOT be considered a bedroom, then it would lower the total bedroom count - which could possibly constitute a functional obsolescense. You can't have it both ways.
Please do not take this next discussion as a personal attack because it is not. You, as the loan officer, can't win them all. What you do have to deal with are the facts as reported by the appraiser, which is what the appraiser is supposed to do. Loan officers are not the real client of the appraiser - the lender/investor purchasing the loan is. ie: whoever is loaning the real money on this property. The appraiser is in this process to supply facts regarding the subject property, comparable sales that are the <u>"newest, nearest, most similar qualified and verifiable"</u> that provide support for the appraiser's opinion of the subject market value, for the lender/investor to decide, through an underwriter, whether or not they want to loan
their money with this property as collateral. (quite often with our federal tax dollars backing up that loan which affects all of us)
Sometimes, any person can go a bit overboard in attempting to do their job. I hope you do call the appraiser and calmly discuss this with her. You both will probably learn from this experience and be better at your respective jobs for it. I know that loan officers are always under pressure to get the loan closed as fast as possible with no problems. Please do not pressure the appraiser to not disclose something that the appraiser must - it's her butt, not yours. I don't know of any appraisers that try to mess up a loan. Most of us actually agonize over something that we must disclose that we know will possibly kill the deal. It's not what we want to do - it's what we must do. In this extremely litigious society, we must cover our butts. Most of us have become very thick skinned because we do get most of the blame whether it's our fault or not. The facts regarding the subject property are just that - facts.
I wish you well and hope this situation works out beneficial for all. 8)