I read the first page and the last page of this thread, I don't have time to read it all. I will give you the forum's official position about asking questions.
First of all this is an informal internet forum. It is for people to exchange ideas on a friendly basis. Everyone is here because they registered and agreed with our rules at
http://appraisersforum.com/rules.htm at registration time.
No question is stupid. If you need an answer to a quuestion, please ask it! If you don't want to answer a basic question, or can not answer it without being sarcastic, then please refrain from answering it. There are plenty of people who will answer questions without being sarcastic, or attacking the person for asking it. For goodness sake, there is nothing worse than saying "you should know that", "where's your mentor, why didn't you ask her", or things like that.
Again, this is an INFORMAL forum. Same as if you were mixing with a group of appraisers after a meeting and talking informally. Do you critique their grammer, criticize them for their questions and comments at such a gathering? I think not. Nothing is here that you will be tested or graded on, or at least you shouldn't be anyway.
But people don't always follow the above guidelines or our rules so we have procedures in place to deal with them. If you feel that you are attacked within a post use the "report post" icon within the post where you were attacked and a moderator will deal with it.
The above philosophy has always been our position since we began this forum in 1998. It has not and will not change. I know a lot of things violate our rules that don't get dealt with, but that is because the POST IS NOT REPORTED! No way the Mods can read through the 600-800 new posts we get every day.
So how the forum goes is up to the users, if you don't report offenses, then they are likely to continue. The mods will deal with them when they catch them in their normal reading of posts, but most posts will go unread by a mod due to the volume of posts.